Tuesday, June 17, 2014

Your Hall of Fame

Throughout my life I’ve found myself simultaneously inspired and impressed by individuals who have become so extremely good at what they do, that the world can’t help but take note.  These people have figured out what they are passionate about and they’ve made the decision to pursue it.

I’m not talking about prodigies; that would be a whole different level of genius.  No, I’m talking about people who have put in the effort, the blood, sweat, tears, hours and hard work to become exceptionally good at what they love.  They didn’t sit back and wait for something to fall in their lap; they didn’t become famous for being famous; and they certainly didn’t expect anyone to do it for them.

I just know that you’re dying to hear an example…right?  Here you go:

Let’s have a look at a guy named Rick Allen.  He is 49 years old and he is the drummer for Def Leppard.  He has one arm.  The clincher is he had to have his arm amputated after he had already been playing with the band for a while.  Now, in my opinion he would have been completely justified if he decided to stop playing altogether and pursue a different career path.  He didn’t.  He looked at his situation and took a different approach to drumming to enable him to keep doing what he loves most.

Maybe you have encountered someone in your life that has inspired you; someone that has beaten all odds to do what no-one else thought they would be able to do.

Sometimes I’m motivated by other people’s success and sometimes (I have to be brutally honest) I’m just a little bit intimidated.  If I’m not careful I could easily become depressed when I look at what others have done with their life compared to my own.

Look, I’m not talking about seeking fame here.  Being famous is not the end goal of life.  Yes, I know I’ve chosen to call this “Your Hall of Fame”, but that’s just the point: This is your hall of fame.  Once you’ve discovered the one thing in life that you are willing to sacrifice for, it doesn’t matter whether other people approve or not.  Your hall of fame is not a place where you are being worshiped as a celebrity, dishing out autographs on the red carpet, smiling at the camera and fighting off crazed fans.

Your hall of fame is a private place, the place where you know that you have given it your all and the result has made you happy and the world around you a better place.

I’m also not saying that becoming famous for a natural talent that you have cultivated and dedicated yourself to is wrong.  No, this is not about distinguishing between “good” and “better” talents and passions.  This is about knowing what you want to achieve in life and making every effort to do it.

Oh, here’s another thing that I used to struggle with: I always thought that I had to have my destiny, passion and talents figured out by the time I was 18 (at the latest), because that’s what Hollywood tells you; that’s what the 4 year old with his little fire truck makes you believe.  Let me tell you a secret: I’m 36 years old and I only recently figured out exactly what I would love to do with the rest of my life.

Let me leave you with one last thought, because these guys say it better than I could:


“Don’t wait for luck, dedicate yourself and you can find yourself standing in the hall of fame.”

Tuesday, June 3, 2014

Feeling The Moment

We all agree that life is made up of a succession of moments; or at least, that's how I see it. Someone very clever, who used to be in my life quite some time ago, used to say:  "A moment is over once you've thought about it."

To be perfectly honest, I've never really allowed myself to think about that phrase too much.  I guess I'm scared that my brain might cease up from trying to over-think and over-analyze (the way I usually do).  It might even be like trying to divide by zero: the universe might implode!  So, I'm sorry to disappoint, but you're going to have to figure that one out for yourself.

Because here's the thing.  If the moment is over once it has crossed your mind, doesn't that mean life is made up of a lot of lost and fleeting moments?  Which kind of makes me wonder if life's moments are supposed to be slippery, lost and mostly gone.  A little negative, don't you think?  I mean, it makes me feel like I have absolutely no control over my moments; which I highly doubt to be true.

Personally I prefer being in control (well, I guess most of us feel that we need to be in control of 99.9% of our lives); this means that I prefer thinking of moments as long drawn-out experiences that I choose to enjoy slowly, thoughtfully and passionately.  Almost the way I would enjoy, say, dreamy ice-cream with caramel sauce.  I'll leave you with that image for a while...you're welcome.

Anyway, my point is actually very simple:  You determine how long you want a moment to last.  I know, life gives you really boring, annoying, frustrating, heart-breaking moments, and sometimes you wish for them to be over in the blink of an eye.  But I actually want to encourage you to not rush any of your moments.  We all know that we learn stuff even if it doesn't feel like we're learning stuff, so instead of closing your eyes and sprinting past a moment, why don't you light a candle and spend some time with it.

Yes, a candle.  Light one.  It will make the experience awesome; just like running with a cape is more awesome than running without one!

Oh, and obviously you can totally create your own moments...they don't always "just happen".  Go get them...with your cape, your ice-cream and your candle.